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SOUTH COASTING: Leslie would like to be more promiscuous with her fulfilling conversations
A certain amount of loose behavior is required to forge a close friendship. You’ve got to let go of your inhibitions and take a risk. Plus, the window of opportunity for personal revelation is small—if you do it too quickly …
SOUTH COASTING: Leslie’s mom always says the right thing
While she snipped away at my curls, the hairdresser’s caffeinated swirl of invectives about what a terrible mother she had filled me with sympathy. I know there are
SOUTH COASTING: Everything I Know About Motherhood So Far
My son turns 13 pretty soon, and since it looks like I won’t be having another child to practice on, I won’t be needing these hard-earned lessons for
SOUTH COASTING: Leslie is a bag lady
It’s taken me a while to get to this point. I’ve struggled and the results haven’t always been pretty, but I can now admit, loudly and proudly, that
SUSAN TORREY: Build a Bear — Away From Home
Fia is now officially six years old.In the past, we’ve always had a party for her at our house. I’ll throw out theme ideas to Fia and let
SOUTH COASTING: The Neurotic Parent Comes to Santa Barbara
Some people say that getting your kid through the college application process is a lot like childbirth—you have to experience it yourself to really understand it. Unlike with
SOUTH COASTING: The Ultimate Green Team
I can't help but smile when I see Strawberry, Banana, Tree and Sun grinning from ear to ear, as they greet Thunder with the thunderous enthusiasm her name
SOUTH COASTING: When should children start kindergarten?
It's kindergarten registration time again, but when school starts this fall a lot of families will be getting a late start—on purpose.No, I’m not talking about those people
SOUTH COASTING: Leslie believes some of your kids are brats
Do you ever have the urge to discipline someone else’s kids?What about when their parents are sitting right there, yukking it up, chatting with friends or drinking cocktails,
SOUTH COASTING: Can a Yes-Woman Become a No (to)-It All?
“You know how to do it, “ whispers the assertive angel on my shoulder, and yes, she sounds a bit like Lauren Bacall. “Just put your lips together


















